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Elisheva Liss
Dec 5, 20194 min read
Why It's Important to Teach Kids Accurate Names of Body Parts
Tzivi came home from preschool and told her mom that her Morah had gotten upset at her that day. “Morah said I used a bad word. But I...
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Elisheva Liss
Aug 11, 20193 min read
Consent For Touch - Even With A Spouse
You know that feeling where you finish a conversation, and then a little later, mentally review it and wish you could go back and change...
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Elisheva Liss
Jul 8, 20195 min read
Please DON'T Fake It Till You Make It
Several years ago, I had been invited to an event that also featured a talk for kallah teachers, giving by a woman who trains them. At...
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Elisheva Liss
Feb 19, 20196 min read
Not Attracted to Her Spouse: Part 2 Some Answers to Your Questions
My recent blog post “I’m Not Attracted to my Spouse” has attracted significantly more views, shares, and responses in its first week than...
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Elisheva Liss
Feb 11, 20197 min read
I'm Not Attracted to My Spouse
Raizy, a soft-spoken 24 year old graphic designer, shifted in her seat, hesitant to share her next words. I waited, while she formulated...
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Elisheva Liss
Jan 6, 20196 min read
Trouble In the Bedroom: Marital Sexual Problems and How We Can Help
Every year around this time, I wonder if this will be the year I try and “do something about it.” These are the weeks we call Shovevim...
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Elisheva Liss
May 12, 20185 min read
Orthodox Women and Sexual Self-Pleasuring
Kayla (pseudonym) was referred to me a number of years ago, by her caring Rebbetzen and mentor, for what she described as a “very...
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Elisheva Liss
May 5, 20184 min read
Intimacy vs. Sex
The well-groomed young couple settled into the matching navy, velvet club chairs in my office, and glanced at one another. After a beat,...
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Elisheva Liss
Dec 13, 20176 min read
She Was Told Never Say No to Your Husband
Miriam and Chaim had been married for just over ten years, and was happily and busily raising their brood of five lively children, when...
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Elisheva Liss
Nov 13, 20177 min read
Sexual Abuse with No Abuser
Beila and Sruly (pseudonyms) are a charming couple in their 20’s. They were referred by Beila’s private therapist, for an unconsummated...
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Elisheva Liss
Jul 27, 20174 min read
Teaching Children about “The Birds and the Bees”
There are, essentially, only two ways for kids to hear about sex: their parents, and Someplace Else. While that “someplace else” may be...
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Elisheva Liss
Mar 13, 201610 min read
Sensory Stimulation for the Sexually Squeamish
Are you one of those people who don’t like to be touched? Do you get a little queasy when someone moves in for a hug? Does the idea of...
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Elisheva Liss
Mar 13, 20164 min read
The Pros and Cons of Scheduled Sex
In working with couples on their sexual relationships, an issue that arises frequently is the challenge of sex and timing. Sometimes the...
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Elisheva Liss
Mar 13, 20164 min read
Why Am I Not In the Mood for Sex (7 Common Causes of Low Desire In Women)
Not feeling “in the mood”? You’re not the only one. So many women feel confused, frustrated, guilt-ridden, annoyed, or discouraged-...
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Elisheva Liss
Mar 13, 20163 min read
Sex Is a Skill
Debbie slumped in her chair in a cloud of defeat. “I really do love my husband, and I think he’s handsome, too, but I’m just not a sexual...
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